I Like, I Wish, What If is an applied feedback framework drawn from design thinking practice and used in applied improv contexts as a structured tool for giving constructive, forward-looking feedback on work in progress. Rather than open-ended critique, feedback is organized into three channels: what is working (I Like), what could be developed (I Wish), and generative possibilities (What If). The framework balances appreciation and aspiration, reducing the defensiveness that unstructured feedback often produces.

Structure

Setup

A piece of work is shared: a proposal, a prototype, an exercise performance, a creative product, or a team decision under review. Participants observe and prepare to give feedback using the three-channel structure.

I Like

Each participant names something specific that is working in the work -- a genuine observation of strength, not a generic compliment. Specificity is required: "I like how the opening creates urgency" rather than "I like it."

I Wish

Each participant names something they wish were different or further developed -- a gap, an underdeveloped element, or a direction the work has not yet explored. This is aspirational rather than critical: the wish implies the work could reach something more.

What If

Each participant offers a generative possibility: "What if the ending returned to the opening image?" or "What if the team had an advocate for the customer in the room?" The What If opens possibilities rather than diagnosing problems.

Conclusion

The creator or team receives the feedback and may respond. The facilitator may synthesize across participants or simply allow the structured feedback to stand.

How to Teach It

Objectives

I Like, I Wish, What If trains the discipline of specific, structured feedback -- balancing appreciation, aspiration, and generative thinking -- and reduces the defensiveness that comes when critique is delivered without acknowledgment of what is working.

How to Explain It

"Three kinds of feedback. Start with what you genuinely like -- be specific. Then a wish -- something you want more of or differently. Then a what if -- a possibility, not a prescription. The goal is to leave the creator with something to build on, not just things to fix."

Scaffolding

Model each channel with examples before participants use the framework. The Wish channel is the most likely to drift into evaluation or criticism without the forward-looking framing -- coach participants to phrase wishes as desires rather than deficits.

Common Pitfalls

Participants sometimes rush through the Like channel to reach the Wish, treating appreciation as a formality. The coaching note is that specific appreciation is the most important channel: it names what to preserve and build on, which is at least as useful as knowing what to change.

In Applied Settings

Learning Objectives

In applied settings, I Like, I Wish, What If develops the capacity to give feedback that is both honest and generative -- a combination that most professional feedback cultures fail to achieve. The framework prevents the two most common feedback failures: pure appreciation that provides no direction, and pure critique that provides no foundation.

Workplace Transfer

The exercise transfers directly to design reviews, creative critiques, project retrospectives, performance conversations, and any context where work needs to be evaluated and improved. Teams that adopt the structure often report that their feedback conversations become both more honest and less defensive, because the framework separates appreciation from aspiration and frames the critical channel as a wish rather than a judgment.

Facilitation Context

I Like, I Wish, What If is used in design thinking workshops, creative team development, agile retrospectives, product feedback sessions, and communication training. It works with any group size. The structure is simple enough to introduce in minutes and immediately applicable in professional settings.

Debrief Framing

Ask participants: "What made giving specific appreciation difficult? What made the What If different from just listing problems? Where in your work would this framework change the quality of your feedback conversations?"

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